Thursday, October 25, 2007

Garba Nights

Navratri concluded just a few days back. It came and went without a ripple in my routine. I didn't go out for Dandia Raas or Garba even one night. But of course, this is the US of A and you have to plan the "night", buy tickets, the outfits, accessories, organise a group of friends who also like to dance to go with you....Just too much trouble for me these days..So I just didn't go...Do I regret it? Of course I do, I wish I had more energy and enthusiasm to do that. So maybe next year I will. For now, I want to reminisce about the simpler days of my childhood when everything was celebrated with so much joy and vigor!
I grew up in a small town called Veraval on the coast on Gujarat. Navratri---the Nine Nights--- was really celebrated in a BIG way there. Big, not in terms of having grand decorations, flashy music, glamorous guests etc. but Big meaning a lot of effort was put into planning the program for each night. There was the song selection, the choreography, the costumes, the accessories....
Throughout the town, there would be many "Garbi Mandals" or groups which would organise their raas-garba each in their own neighborhood. So in an open space a mandap would be built, with the Maa Durga shrine in the center and a circular track around it for the dancers to dance.
Where I used to dance, the registrations would begin almost a couple of months prior to the start of Navratri. There would be 2 groups into which the girls would be sorted based on their ages-- Junior and Senior. Then the practice sessions would start. we would have practice after school.
The garba songs would be chosen. All of them would be original, traditional songs praising the Goddess Durga or Lord Krishna. (Only much later did the songs start getting the Bollywood flavor with songs set on hit Hindi songs' tunes). For the practice sessions there would be only one singer to sing for us but on the actual performance nights, there would be more singers to accompany the lead singer, as well as the musicians---the harmonium player, the tabla player, the flautist etc.
Once the songs were decided, the choreography would begin, our "teacher" would show us the steps and we had to follow. There were numerous songs with a unique sequence of steps for each song. As if the variety was not enough, apart from just plain garba, i.e. dance with footwork and hand movements, there would also be dances with props, like with "Khanjaris" (Tambourines), "Manjiras" (cymbals), "Bedas" (Metal pots) and of course, "Dandiyas" (Sticks)!
Now to the costumes!! It was very simple. We all wore "half Sarees", which meant that the normal 6 yards Saree was folded in half, width-wise and draped in the usual way but not all the way to our ankles, just halfway down our calves. The only rule was that all girls in the group had to wear the same color on any given day. So day one would be "green Saree day", two would be "yellow" and so on. Now, ours was a typically middle class neighborhood where most women didn't own Sarees in all colours of the rainbow! So we girls would "canvass" the neighborhood, knocking on doors and asking the "aunties", "Auntie, do you have a yellow/dark blue/maroon Saree"? And mostly, we did find what we needed! God bless all those aunties!! Then my mother would alter her own blouses to fit me.
Finally when Navratri actually started, we would begin each evening with the Aarati and then dance till late...Parents would be there watching with pride and joy and we would all feel very pretty and important!!
Of course all this was a long time ago.... I don't know if it still works this way, even in small towns like Veraval. When I think about those days, I marvel at how much time and effort we spent on such creative exercises without even realising it. I just thought of it as having Fun!!!

Wildfire

I had only heard of the term "Spreading like Wildfire" being used metaphorically. It was terrible to see it actually happening! I'm talking about the 13 or more wildfires raging in Southern California since last weekend. We've been watching all the reports on TV and seeing so many hundreds of acres being burnt to ashes, including so many people's homes.
As I woke up in the morning on my own bed, in my own home, I realised that there were thousands who were camping in the local stadium in San Diego and so many more elsewhere who didn't have the comfort and security that we have in our homes. Thousands have lost their homes and everything in it.. After all, no matter how many hours prior notice you get, how much can you carry with you when you are fleeing? What do you pick, what do you leave behind? How do you decide when there is chaos and panic all around?
Just thinking about all this makes me feel grateful for whatever I have right now. It's always good to keep things in perspective, I guess.

Saturday, October 20, 2007

Part-II of the same

Here are some more differences:
1) In India, when we "freaked out", it usually meant that we had lots of fun. Here when someone "freaks out", in all probability, he/she got terribly scared or terribly angry at something.
2)I used to pronounce "Herbal" the way it is written. Only after coming to the US I realised that the "H" in it is silent. So it is pronounced "Erbal" and "herbs" as "erbs".
3)On the street, "overtaking"(Indian) is called "Passing"(American).
4)Shifting-------moving
5)Postman--------Mail-carrier (The "man" is out, since there are more women in this job than men, I guess)

I'm sure there are many more. As they keep occurring to me, I'll keep posting them. So can anybody else.

Friday, October 19, 2007

The Way We (And They) Say It

The other day I was thinking about how we use one word in India for something and a totally different one for the same things here in the US.
I've been meaning to write about this for a long time but kept putting it off because I wanted a complete list of words/phrases. Now I realise new words and phrases keep cropping up once in a while and the list will never really be complete, so let me start with what I have now and will go on adding more later.

First, the more common/obvious differences in respect to British v/s American English.
1)Lift-------------------------Elevator
2)Flat-------------------------Apartment
3)Biscuits---------------------Cookies/Crackers
4)Firecrackers-----------------Fireworks
5)Petrol-----------------------Gas(oline)

Now, for the differences, not just in words, but ideas/concepts.
1) When we Indians have soup, mostly we drink it, right? Well, in America, they "eat" soup!

2)For Indians, rain is a good thing because we are an agricultural country and rainwater is essential to the crops. We also associate cool temperatures with romance, somehow. (At least I did, as a girl!) And the burning, scorching sun is the enemy...Well, just the opposite is true here in the West. Tune in to any weather report and when they say "Bad weather coming our way", it surely means rain (if not snow....and most Indians associate snow with romance too!) And warm sunny days are described as "glorious", "beautiful", "lovely" etc.!
This, of course, is typical not just of the US but any land with cold climates.

3)In India, the pavement (or footpath) is the path for pedestrians by the side of the road. In the US, "pavement" means the "paved" area, i.e. the road itself!! So the pavement is definitely not for pedestrians!

4)When Indians want to take something, the just "take" it, elsewhere, they "bring" it. (I'm sure I'm not doing a good job of expressing myself here but I hope someone who's reading can!)

So, that's the list so far. I'm sure there are lots of such terms/expressions out there that fit in this category. I'll write about them whenever I can. Anybody else can also share their contributions here..

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

India on the silver screen

Something that struck me while watching TV shows here in the US is that each one of them is set in a particular city. There are frequent shots of the famous landmarks of that city. Wherever applicable, actors speak with the local accent.
This made me wonder why we don't have this kind of thing in our Indian TV serials, or even movies for that matter. I mean, forget the Saas-Bahu epics---my rant against those will make up a whole post altogether--- but even the somewhat saner serials never really give an idea about where the characters live. All the characters look, dress and talk the same, all the homes look the same (in fact, some ARE the same houses used over and over again in many serials!)!
Maybe the serials are not big-budgeted, but what about the movies? They have the money. So they are not restricted to shooting in artificial sets or locally in Mumbai. Then why don't we have more movies that are shot in cities other than Mumbai or New Delhi (which is currently more popular amongst the film folk, I think)? How many movies can we think of that have small towns as their base, with real regional flavor in the characters?
The leading men and women are almost always Punjabi, going by their surnames. I've nothing against Punjabis; they're wonderful people, but surely one can think of the hero/heroine being Gujarati or Kannadiga or Oriya or something else? Why don't we see festivals other than "Holi", "Karva CHauth", "Diwali" etc? There are so many big and small festivals and rituals celebrated in different parts of India. It would be great to see them for a change. India is such a richly diverse place I can't imagine why no one has thought of this before!
I can think of a few..."Main Madhuri Dixit Banna Chahti Hoon", "Haasil" and "Main Meri Patni aur Woh". The last one beautifully captured the essence of two northern towns(OK, cities, maybe), Kanpur and Meerut. It was so refreshing to see the kind of houses people actually live in, hear the typical accents and idioms that they use!
I'd like to know if anyone knows of any other movies which bring out the local flavor.

Tuesday, October 09, 2007

Udaipur Trip - Part III

The better part of the next day was spent shopping....aaah...the joys of it!! We picked up tie-and-dyed fabrics, bronze (or some such pinkish-dark metal) souvenirs etc. I remember we ran out of cash and so T let us borrow from her credit card -- another first for most of us since we'd never used credit cards before.. It was one of those Bank of Baroda ones, called "Bobcard"!
By the time we returned to the hotel, it was time to checkout. So we checked out but we still had half a day before our bus left. So once again the hotel authorities helped us. They said we could leave our luggage at the front desk and spend the day looking around the city and then pick them up when it was time to leave. But we decided against any more roaming because G, who had been running a temperature, was feeling really tired. We requested the hotel manager to let us use the lounge for the day and he did! So we camped there, watching TV. They were showing the movie "Vijeta" on Doordarshan that day. Meanwhile, A and T discussed the finer points of Linda Goodman's book on Star Signs with the manager!! Finally we boarded our bus and came back to our hostel, safe and sound and a lot richer, experience-wise!
As I said in the beginning of this series of posts, we saw nothing but the best in people everywhere we went. I hope all those wonderful people have happy, content lives. And last but not the least, I am grateful for my parents, who trusted me enough to let me go on this trip, putting aside their own fears and concerns about my safety. It will always mean such a lot to me.
At the end of the trip, all four of us promised to make the same trip again in five years time (with husbands and kids, we added)to relive the experience. Unfortunately, it's been over fifteen years now and we still haven't made that trip. By the way, none of us were married in the next five years, talk about wishful thinking!

Thursday, October 04, 2007

Udaipur Trip-Part II

The next day we took a bus to Chittorgarh to see the fort and the landmark, "Victory Tower". Well, the bus was packed to the max., as are most long-distance buses in rural India. The four of us somehow found seats but someone standing next to T's seat had placed his "potli" (cloth bundle) very conveniently on her head. And, kind soul that she was(still is) she never told the guy to remove it and sat most of the way keeping her head as still as possible while we laughed at her expense. Meanwhile, the passenger sitting next to A was nodding off on her shoulder, much to her discomfort and our entertainment!! It was fun!!
We had no idea how to go about sightseeing in Chittor, so lucky for us, we met a "Rickshaw walla" who said he'd take us around the whole day and show us the sights, even where "The movie "Guide" was filmed", for a certain amount of Rs. He seemed sincere and honest so we hired him. True to what he promised, he was a perfect guide, very talkative, informative and unintentionally funny. After the customary Victory Tower and fort sights, he showed us the place "where Waheeda Rehman ran on the parapet in "Guide""! I always looked out for the place whenever I watched Guide after that!
All in all, it was a paisa-vasool rickshaw trip.
to be continued

Wednesday, October 03, 2007

Udaipur Trip-Part I

Whenever I hear someone talking about how mean the world is, how selfish everybody is, I like to think about a trip I took with some friends a long time back. This trip made me realise that there are some wonderful, decent, helpful, friendly people in this world. Memories of this trip still bring a smile to my face.
It was 1992, 2nd year B.Sc. I used to live in a hostel since I was from a small town and I was studying in a (relatively) big city. One fine day some of us friends began talking about travelling to Rajasthan to see the famous cities of Jaipur, Udaipur etc. Slowly what started out as idle talk started materializing into a plan!!
we were just four of us. We did some research and found out that we could afford only to visit Udaipur and nearby Chittor. Those were the days before internet-bookings so we went to the State Tourism Office and paid up to reserve our room at the State Guest House.
We travelled overnight in a state transport bus. When we reached Udaipur, it was about 3 am and it was pouring! At the hotel we found out that we could check into our room only at 11:00 am (the official check-in time). As we looked around us trying to figure out where to spend the rest of the night, the front desk clerk said, "We can give you another room for the night, till 11:00 am, if you like". We said yes and were showed into this really "deluxe" room...with plush furnishings, a huge bathroom with a bath-tub...We loved it!! We felt like little girls in Fairyland. Of course we had to move to our more down-to-earth room when it was time...but this was the first of the many instances of someone going out of our way to help us. (I don't think we were ever charged for use of that room).
Then, during breakfast, one of my friends, let's call her G, who had been running a fever since the day before, suddenly fainted! We were so shocked we didn't know what to do...But there was this group of European tourists(I forget which country they were from) also having breakfast in the room, who leapt into action..Someone produced a bottle of eau de cologne and dabbed G's face with it. They rubbed her hands and feet..Sprinkled water on her face....One of them, maybe trying to figure out the reason for her fainting, asked me, "Is she pregnant?" My answer still makes me feel like a fool. I said indignantly, "Of course not, She's not married!" Anyway, the prompt attention helped and G was fine enough to go sightseeing.
We visited the City Palace, Saheliyon Ki Baari, Rana Pratap Memorial etc. We couldn't go to the Lake Palace since it was closed, I think for renovations... It was a beautiful day.
I don't know where those foreign tourists are today, but I hope they know that they did something really nice for us that day.
To be continued......
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